Comments for Secret #4607

I’m 28, and I’m still scared of marriage. I’ve never been able to stay with someone for more than six months. I usually end up ghosting them for no real reason, or I start hating them over the smallest mistake, flaw, or even an idea I have about them.

It always follows the same pattern: at first, I put them on a pedestal and develop a huge crush on them. Then, over time, my feelings become more and more intense until something suddenly changes. I start noticing everything I dislike about them, the attraction disappears, and eventually I break up with them or ghost them.

The strangest part is that I’ve never really felt sad or heartbroken after losing someone. I usually just feel relieved.

And honestly, that’s what scares me the most. I don’t understand why I keep repeating this pattern, and I’m starting to wonder if I’m actually afraid of marriage—or if I’m afraid of getting close to someone and staying emotionally connected to them.